What's the last thing that made no sense to you?
Posted on Feb 25th, 2009
by
DudeRun
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 23, 2009:
I was talking to a friend today and we got on the topic of a mutual friends of ours. I was telling her how our mutual friend had badmouthed her during their freshman and sophomore years, but she's been doing better lately. The friend I was talking with put out bluntly, "I don't like her at all."
I just stood there. It felt like the ground shook when she said that. She is one of the most accepting people I know. She is always smiling or laughing. She befriends the weirdos no one else goes up to and she just LOVES people. I both love and hate that about her, so when she told me this I was just sent for a spin.
By the end of the day, she came up to me and said, "I don't think I'm going to talk to her anymore. She's saying this stuff behind my back so she isn't a good friend, obviously."
I was just thoroughly confused how a few things from a year or two ago could impact her so much when she is how she is, but I guess it showed me a different side of her I hadn't ever witnessed. She's human like everyone else and she can get angry and feel betrayed.
I just stood there. It felt like the ground shook when she said that. She is one of the most accepting people I know. She is always smiling or laughing. She befriends the weirdos no one else goes up to and she just LOVES people. I both love and hate that about her, so when she told me this I was just sent for a spin.
By the end of the day, she came up to me and said, "I don't think I'm going to talk to her anymore. She's saying this stuff behind my back so she isn't a good friend, obviously."
I was just thoroughly confused how a few things from a year or two ago could impact her so much when she is how she is, but I guess it showed me a different side of her I hadn't ever witnessed. She's human like everyone else and she can get angry and feel betrayed.

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